50% people are not interested in your problems and the rest are happy that you have them. Some people share their problems in great details and style, thereby creating a mountain out of mole.
It is not that one should keep his problems to himself only. Especially
men feel inferior in sharing their problems. Most of the time men do not share problems even with their spouse. That attitude is also not advisable. Sharing problems with the right person reduces suffering and enhances chances of getting solutions. What is important is to select the right person to share your problems.
There are two types of people with whom one can share the problems. One is your close family or an associate who is going to get affected by the problem and another is a competent person who has the ability to solve your problem. While sharing keep in mind that you do not magnify your problems. Neither the problem is going to reduce nor you can get the right solution.
5 Tips to handle problems.
1. Problems are inevitable, shareit with a right person.
2. Be positive and think about right solution rather than feeling helpless.
3. Do not advertise your problems.
4. Forfew problems, timeis the great healer. Keep patience.
5. Try to be more knowledgeable about problem and its probable solutions.
दोहा by अविनाश बागड़े
अपने दुख तकलीफ़ ना, जग भर करे बखान।
दुख अपना बतलाइये, लोगों को पहचान।।
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