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Tuesday, September 9, 2014

HBS: HEAR BOTH SIDES

HBS: 
Hear Both Sides. 

You might have come across a situation where 2 siblings are fighting
and one of sibling start crying and complain to Dad, without listening
the other side or investigating situation, the other sibling who doesn't
cry, get verbal lashes from Dad. It happens many times in life that we
get to hear one side and we create perception and opinion about other
side. If you go in depth and listen to both the sides; you will find that
single party is not the culprit. Both have made mistakes and finally
what has come to you is aggravated version of situation.

Many times we are also biased towards one party or we feel compassionate towards weaker one but if judgment is given without
listening to both the sides, you may regret later. Make it a habit, whenever you are in the role of judge, however tempting it may be, never give verdict without listening to the other side.

5 Tips for better Judgment:
1. Patience is prerequisite of better judgment.
2. Listen both the parties without any biases.
3. It is not necessary that weaker is always right.
4. It is not difficult to judge between right and wrong, it is difficult to judge between right and more right or wrong and more wrong.
5. Keep the greater purpose in mind while judging.

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