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Sunday, September 14, 2014

LIE: Life Is Echo.

LIE: 
Life Is Echo. 

Life is like an echo. Whatever energies you send out, they come back.
What you give away, you get. What you sow you reap. If you give
pleasure to people, you will get happiness in life. If you give pain to
people, you will get suffering in life. Every action has got reaction.
I recall a small story. One day a small boy was making a pot of clay. His
father asked: for whom are you making it my son. He said for you dad.
When you get old, I will give you food in that. My grand father is also
using similar pot. His father got shocked and ashamed for treating his
parents badly. Life is boomerang. What you throw comes back to you.
Our children will learn more from our deeds than our words.
5 Tips about Life is an Echo:
1.Whenever you speak, make sure that you have capability to chew
back the words if required.
2. Children are observing. Be careful about your actions in front of
them.
3. Give back to society.
4. Be clear about your role and do your duty.
5. Spread happiness and try to create positive difference in life of
others.

LBL: Look Beyond Looks.

LBL: 
Look Beyond Looks. 

I was and still am choosy about food to some extent. Whenever a new
dish comes before me I used to have 3 stages of eating. First I eat with
eyes then with nose and then with the tongue. In this process it so
happened that I am still deprived of delicious food available worldwide.
In life also we get so obsessed with looks that most of the time we may
over look real qualities of things and inside beauty of people.

A great scientist, Albert Einstein, came in contact with very beautiful
lady and she proposed with an intention that your brain and my beauty
can give us wonderful children. Scientist declined by saying if reverse happens; your brain and my beauty. Jokes apart, beautiful faces may be deceiving. Look beyond the looks. Nothing is more beautiful than inside beauty of a person. 

5 Tips to Look at Beauty:
1. Do not decide any thing based on outer beauty.
2. Try to find inner qualities.
3. Use the things and Love the people rather than using the people
and loving the things.
4. Most of the people uses mask, trying to look behind that.
5. People are not difficult, they are different.

Friday, September 12, 2014

KYG: KEEP YOURSELF GREEN

KYG: 
Keep Yourself Green. 

I do not recall where I read these three words recently but they caught my attention. Keep Yourself Green. Keeping green means keeping oneself always fresh, ageless, smiling, enthusiastic, optimistic etc. As soon as you wake up in morning, even before opening your eyes, bring smile on your face. Recite whichever prayer that you feel appropriate. Count your blessings. Thank God for whatever you have. Promise yourself that whatsoever may ever happen I will keep myself cool, fresh, positive and optimistic. 

This green attitude will bring lots of peace in your mind and happiness in your life. All your decisions will be right and actions will be effective. It will solve your problems without much effort and you will be able to create positive difference in your surroundings. Your aura will become wider and your influence will be deeper. Try it. 

5 Tips to keep you always green:
1. Before sleep close your eyes and fill your mind with positive thoughts.
2. Before opening your eyes in the morning, smile and fill your mind with positive thoughts.
3. As human being negativity and worries bound to come in our life, challenge is not to allow them to stay for long.
4. Specially, treat your juniors and children with smile and positivity.
5. Count your blessings. There are millions who are having dream to lead your kind of life.

Thursday, September 11, 2014

KIS: Keep It Simple.

KIS: 
Keep It Simple. 

The phrase is KISS, Keep It Simple Stupid. Really, if we do not keep things simple, we are no more than stupid. Unknowingly we make things, work, relationship so complicated, it spoils everything. It leads to unnecessary stress, wastage of time and energy. 

In work place, particularly in old organization, system becomes so complicated and cumbersome, which require more, energy, time and money to complete tasks. If you are doing some thing in same way for more than a year, chances are that you are doing it wrong. Whatever we are doing requires to be questioned, from time to time that, why we are doing it that way? If we question the methods and use our creativity, we will definitely find better way of doing that, much simpler and less expensive. 

This can be applied in relationships also. If we keep them simple by straight communication, we can have stronger relationships. We complicate our relationships by unnecessary assumptions and baseless lies. 
5 Tips to Keep Life Simple:
1. Be honest in behavior.
2. Review your systems and procedures regularly.
3. Use creativity and innovativeness in whatever you do.
4. Shorten the process by removing duplicities and bureaucracy.
5.  Keep taking feedback from people involved.

Wednesday, September 10, 2014

INA: Idea Needs Actions.

INA: 
Idea Needs Actions. 

Ideas without actions are like balloons without air. Everyday millions of
ideas are generated by billions of people but 99.99% do not see any
daylight. We have habit of killing our own ideas by not taking any action. We must maintain a small diary or maintain notes in our smart phones. As soon as idea flashes without any evaluation first note it down immediately. Our memory is short and in no time we may entirely forget, what the idea was. Idea can occur any time; at the
middle of night or sitting on the commode. Then give deep thought to idea, its workability, advantage,
disadvantage, and consequences. If you think it is implementable and going to bring good, talk with relevant people. Ask their views. Listen to
them. It is not necessary everyone is going to appreciate but getting
different dimension and views are important for further evaluation. Once you are convinced and your gut feeling says it's a good idea, start taking action to implement it. No idea will work unless you
start doing work.

5 Tips to get benefit from Ideas:
1. Note down your ideas.
2. Discuss your ideas with relevant people.
3. Do not get discouraged with some criticism.
4. If you are convinced, take immediate actions for implementation. 
5. Failures are inevitable, do not get discouraged by that.

Tuesday, September 9, 2014

HBS: HEAR BOTH SIDES

HBS: 
Hear Both Sides. 

You might have come across a situation where 2 siblings are fighting
and one of sibling start crying and complain to Dad, without listening
the other side or investigating situation, the other sibling who doesn't
cry, get verbal lashes from Dad. It happens many times in life that we
get to hear one side and we create perception and opinion about other
side. If you go in depth and listen to both the sides; you will find that
single party is not the culprit. Both have made mistakes and finally
what has come to you is aggravated version of situation.

Many times we are also biased towards one party or we feel compassionate towards weaker one but if judgment is given without
listening to both the sides, you may regret later. Make it a habit, whenever you are in the role of judge, however tempting it may be, never give verdict without listening to the other side.

5 Tips for better Judgment:
1. Patience is prerequisite of better judgment.
2. Listen both the parties without any biases.
3. It is not necessary that weaker is always right.
4. It is not difficult to judge between right and wrong, it is difficult to judge between right and more right or wrong and more wrong.
5. Keep the greater purpose in mind while judging.

Monday, September 8, 2014

HBP: HONESTLY BE POLITE

HBP: 

Honestly Be Polite. 


I am always cautious of people who have extremely sweet speech. People wear so many masks; it becomes difficult to judge their

intentions particularly when you are not fully acquainted with them. Politeness is the quality, very useful for creating, developing and

maintaining the relations. However if you are slightly dishonest in your politeness, people will find it out and will not trust you. Dishonesty in politeness means you have some other motto in your mind which is in contrast with your words. It means your speech and actions are not

synchronised.


There are people who are honest in heart but do not know how to be polite. Such people face difficulty in connecting with others. For politeness best instrument is smile. Though it is such a simple expression but some people fail to bring on face. Polite people normally rehearse the words and reframe before they shoot them. Initially cautious efforts are required however continuous practice makes man perfect.


5 Tips for becoming Polite:

1. Think before expressing.

2. Wear a permanent smile.

3. Every day meditation can help in controlling emotions.

4. Select your words cautiously.

5. Drop your ego.