5 Tips to create destiny

ADD: Actions Decide Destiny. 

Nowadays, most of the people don't trust luck or destiny Probably, the reason is that the word “destiny” is not understood in the right perspective. Keeping in mind the basic rule of nature, 

whatever “KARMA” we do now, “FAL” is bound to be there in future. That “FAL” is our luck or destiny. In some cases, result is immediate and in others it might take few years. However, as per 

eastern philosophies,it might also occur afterfew births. 

Whatever action we are taking now is our “KARMA” and whatever is happening to us now is the result of our past “KARMA”. Since, for luck, all the philosophies and religions have different views, thus, it has become a debatable issue. Nevertheless, all religions are having consensus on one thing that we should always do good “KARMA” and avoid bad “KARMA”. Best way to differentiate between good and bad is to ask your own conscious. 

5 Tips to create your destiny. 

1. Keep sowing the seeds of good “KARMA”.

2. Do not do anything, which is good for you but harmful for other. 

3. Genuinely help others. 

4. Avoid procrastinating your actions unnecessarily. 

5. Think thoroughly about consequences before action. 

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AIP: Ability Increases Power.

AIP: Ability Increases Power. 

Whatever role you are playing or whatever field you are into, becoming powerful and influential in that field is of utmost importance. Power is needed to get fame and success. 

Question is how to get genuine power? 

Power is basically the fruit. To get good fruit one needs to nurture the root. Ability and capability are the roots of power. Therefore, it's mandatory to keep developing ability and capability by learning and training. Mainly, power is categorized into three areas i.e. Physical, Mental and Monetary. In Indian mythology, Durga; Saraswati  and Lakshmi symbolize them. 

Though, in modern era, monetary power is considered more important than intellect and physical power. Yet, monetary power can't be optimally utilized in absence of physical and mental power. 

5 Tips to develop ability. 

1. Select thefieldin which you want to increase yourinfluence.

2. Keeplearning through education, training & reading.

3. Apply yourintellectin practicality. 

4. Interact with expertsin thefield.

5. Grow the network of people associated with the related field.

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UTW: Ultimately Truth Wins

UTW: Ultimately Truth Wins. 

Truth is a debit card, pay first and enjoy later. Lie is a credit card, enjoy first and pay later. Truth may be painful initially but lie will have deeper wounds and will hurt you life long. Truth may be bitter 

initially but it will cure all problems and on the other hand lie will taste sweeter but will be harmful forever. Lie may win initially but ultimately truth wins. A lie will add to your troubles, subtract your energy, multiply your difficulties and divide yourjoy whereas a truth will add to your happiness, subtract your troubles, multiply your joy and divide your problems. 

Sometimes it may look that a small lie can save your relationship but no matter howsoever small a lie is, it will steal your peace of mind and happiness. And when lie gets detected, it hurts much deeper. When the situation is that the truth can hurt, plan your words carefully so that shock is not sudden and wounds are not deep. 

5 Tips for telling truth: 

1. Select right time, right words and right situation before telling a truth. 

2. If you do not have courage to tell the truth, maintain silence rather than covering up with lies. 

3. Do not mix emotions with truth. It will get distorted.

4. It may be harmful in short term but in long term it will be more effective.

5. Truth may be subjective so listen carefully to others also.

TSR: Transparency Strengthens Relationship

TSR: Transparency Strengthens Relationship. 

We are prospering in terms of  wealth but our relationships are on the verge of bankruptcy. The prime reason is lack of transparency and trust. Our thoughts, words and actions are not aligned. People are smart enough to differentiate between actions and intentions. In such a situation, one can only have either formal or professional relationship but not trust based relationship. 

No relationship can be strong if trust is lacking. Trust is the foundation of a long lasting relationship. The main reason for 

breakup in a relationship is the broken trust. Some time misunderstanding can crop up in-spite of our genuineness but best way to remove misunderstanding is to go and talk straight away. Speak up your mind and be transparent. It will be easy to regain the lost trust. Transparency in words is not enough. One needs to be transparent in thoughts & actions also.Following needs to be done to be transparent. 

5 Tips for maintaining transparency in relationship. 

1. Align your thoughts, words and actions. 

2. Develop courage to speak your mind with people. 

3. Try to walkin the shoes of other person and understand the

situation from his/her point of view. 

4. Take the feedback without trying to justify yourself. 

5. Express your regret on realization of your fault. 

TDP: Thoughts Differentiate Personalities.

TDP: Thoughts Differentiate Personalities. 

Imagine 2 identical twins, having same physical appearance, eating similar food,wearing identical  clothes, raised in same environment, attending same school, having same friend circle still they be have differently in similar situation. What differentiates them? The whole difference is how they think. Our words and actions are governed by what we think. 

Our destiny is the result of our thoughts. What we think, we speak. Our words get converted into our actions. Repeated actions get converted into our habit. Old habits turn into our character and our character decides our destiny. So watch your thoughts if you want to change your destiny. Our thoughts are combination of our accumulated knowledge and present input through various senses. What we receive in conscious stage, after analyzing in our brain, gets stored in our subconscious mind. Caution is required in what we are storing because that accumulated knowledge and wisdom 

will guide the intellect in future to take decisions. 

5 Tips to manage thoughts: 

1. Continuously watch your thoughts.

2. Do not allow negative thoughts to get stored in subconscious mind.

3. Continuously keep refining quality of your thoughts.

4. Reading good books helpin having better thought process.

5. Company of good people also helps in having better thoughts.

SiG: Silence is Golden.

SiG: Silence is Golden. 

There are 2 kind of people who keep silence: A timid and a wise.  A timid does not know what to speak & wise thinks why he should speak. Except when you 

are an excellent orator and your profession 

demands oratory skills like political leaders, religious leaders, marketing 

professionals & trainers, excess words will do more harm than any good. You will always be tempted to trouble your tongue but mostly it will bring trouble in your life. Whenever you are upset for any reason, first step to save yourself from stupidity is to seal your 

lips. Even a one-minute silence can change future course of action. 

People who maintain silence are actually  talking to self. Such 

people mostly weigh their words before uttering, so it creates a 

great impact on the audience.

5 Tips to maintain Silence.   

1. Maintaining silence requires higher degree of self-control. 

2. Allow others to speak so that you can have a better strategy before you speak because once spoken, retrieving words is impossible.  

3. One can be very generous in spending money but should be 

very miser in spending words. 

4. Quality of words are more important than quantity of words. 

5. Rephrase sentences several times before you speak.

SGM: Smile Go Miles.

I lived for more than 10 years in Indonesia. Indonesia is the 4  most populated country with 90% plus Muslims. I learned the 

importance and impact of smile in Indonesia. A totally unknown person, irrespective of gender will give a subtle smile when you enter in lift or meet in close  proximity. Human brain is designed to remember the images, not the words. When we meet someone with a smiling face, he/she will remember us for years because we have left a positive image on his/her mind. Smile helps in radiating positive energy between people. 

When we are upset but have learned to smile it can hold back our tongue from uttering unwanted words, it can seal our lips so that we do not regret later. Smile in the face of a problem can boost the enthusiasm around us. A smile on the face of a looser can take away the thrill of  a winner. 

5 tips about smiling: 

1. Smile genuinely. Fake smile may have negative impact.

2. Develop a habit of smiling.

3. Let gender, caste, creed, class not come between you and 

your smile.

4. Greet first with smile.

5. Have positive thoughts. It is not possible to give genuine 

smile with negative thoughts.