AIP Ability Increases Power

Whatever the role you are playing or whatever the field you are into, becoming powerful and influential in that field is of utmost importance. Power is needed to get fame and success. 

 

Question is how to get genuine power. Power is basically fruit. To get good fruit one need to nurture the root. Ability and capability is the root of power. Therefore, its mandatory to keep developing ability and capability by learning and training. Mainly, power is categorized into three areas i.e. Physical, Mental and Monetary. In Indian mythology, Durga; Saraswati; and Lakshmi symbolize them. 

 

Though, in modern era, monetary power is considered more important than intellect and physical power. Yet, monetary power can’t be better utilized in absence of physical and mental power. 

 

5 Tips to develop ability

1. Select the field in which you want to increase your influence. 

2. Keep learning through education, training, reading etc. 

3. Apply your intellect in practicallity. 

4. Interact with experts in the field. 

5. Grow the network of related people.

AIM Allow Intelligent Mistakes

Allowing mistakes is the first step for encouraging invention, innovation and initiatives. As a parent, as an elder, as a boss and as a leader in society, we tend to analyze and criticise actions of juniors. We develop an attitude of I AM OK, YOU ARE NOT OK. In this process either we create rebellions or the dumbs. 

 

Allowing mistake does not mean that you allow dumb and repeated mistakes. There is a saying “if you never commit mistake then you are in the category of God otherwise you are a human being. Nonetheless, if you repeat mistakes then you fall in the category of fools. Apart from your juniors, allow yourself also to make mistakes. Do not feel bad when on realizing your mistakes, do not blame others for the same.

 

When failures and mistakes are analyzed chances of repeating the same will drop drastically. Usually, mistakes occur due to ignorance, lack of knowledge and poor systems. When we do critical analysis, then, we could find innovative ways of not repeating them again. 

 

5 Tips how to handle mistakes

1. Find the intention behind mistake and deal accordingly. 

2. Learn lessons from mistakes. 

3. Avoid blame game. 

4. Encourage creativity, innovation and initiatives. 

5. Document it for future reference.

AFI Ask For It

How to get whatever you want? The first and most effective method is to “ASK FOR IT”. As a child, the very first thing we learn is “To Ask” but as we grow up, we feel shy in asking. Likewise, in personal and professional life, everyday we want to achieve something, which is not possible without taking help of others. If we feel inferior and shy, then it might hamper our growth.

 

In life we pass through three stages i.e. Dependent, Independent and Interdependent. As a child or in the initial stage of anything, we are dependent and normally do not hesitate to ask but as we grow in our role we feel independent and that’s the point where our ego starts building up. Principally, its our ego which stops us from asking others.

 

5 Tips how to ask without shying. 

1. Always be ready to help others. Actually, helping others take away guilt feeling and eases us in asking for help when required. 

2. Ask without hesitation. Normally feel people strong and elevated when someone asks them for help. 

3. Ask only when genuinely you need help. 

4. Asking financial help shall be avoided unless you are having trust on that person. 

5. Ask help from right person who has the ability to help.

ADD Actions Decides Destiny

Nowadays, most of the people don’t trust luck or destiny. Probably, the reason is that the word “destiny” is not understood in right perspective. Keeping in mind the basic rule of nature, whatever “KARMA” we do now, “FAL” has to be there in future. That “FAL” is our luck or destiny. In some cases, result is immediate or it might take few years. However, as per eastern philosophies, it might occur after few births. 

 

Whatever action we are taking now is our “KARM” and whatever happening to us is the result of our past “KARMA”. Since, for luck, all the philosophies and religions have different views. Thus, it has become debatable issue. Nevertheless, all religions are having consensus on one thing that we should always do good “KARMA” and avoid bad “KARMA”. Best way to differentiate between good and bad is to ask your own conscious. 

 

5 Tips to create your destiny 

1. Keep sowing the seeds of good “KARMA”. 

2. Do not to do anything, which is good for you but harmful for other. 

3. Genuinely help others. 

4. Do not procrastinate your actions unnecessarily. 

5. Think thoroughly about consequences before action.

ADA Attitude Decides Altitude

A person with positive attitude creates an atmosphere of optimism and happiness around him. All forces start working to help achieve the target of person havingright attitude. Generally, people tend to avoid persons having negative attitudedue the fact that negative attitude creates an atmosphere of depression and pessimism around him. Such persons are always under stress because of the feeling that nobody is there to help them. 

 

Positive attitude is the result of positive thinking. One can’t have positive attitude with negative thoughts. When thoughts and attitude is not aligned, person will lose trust. As human being negative thoughts are bound to come, important is to be always conscious about that and keep burying them as early as possible. 

 

We deal with several people in our day to day working and it is important that we know about their attitude. Generally if a person is having genuine smile on his face, chances are bright that person is carrying positive attitude. 

 

5 Tips how to maintain positive attitude

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Never lose hope and be optimist. 

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Allow only positive thoughts to stay. 

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Keep appreciating people surrounding you.  

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Discuss do not argue.  

5.

Wear a permanent smile.  

ABH Appreciation Brings Happiness

We Indians are extremely miser in appreciating others as well as self. Though there are many who are expert in doing fake appreciation, which is called as CHAMCHAGIRI in Indian slang. Normally, we are good in appreciating and encouraging children but refrain our self when it comes to appreciating better half or a colleague.  Praise can change anyone's attitude and raise anyone's altitude. 

The power of appreciation in boosting confidence is tremendous. Appreciation encourages you to perform better in order to live up to the expectation of the praise you get. Many times the praise or appreciative words may be an exaggeration, nevertheless those words set a minimum bench mark for performance and one ends up with a better than expected performance. Genuine appreciation and praise boost the moral and create happiness between the parties. 

5 Tips for effective praise:

1.  Praise publicly, criticise privately.   

2. Never miss an opportunity to praise. 

3. Be truthful and genuine in praising. 

4. If possible give some thing in reward along with the words.

5. Try to publicize the good work in relevant group.

Prayer

WoW: By prayer you may not get any thing but you will lose your anger.