Flow with flow

5 tips to flow with flow. 

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Family Is Foremost

Family is Foremost. 5 Tips for giving due importance to family. 

जीवन की है पुस्तिका, जिसमे विषय हजार। 

याद रखें हर हाल में, प्रथम पाठ परिवार।।

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FIP: Fear is Psychological.

Fear is not logical, most of the time it is psychological. Here I am not covering fear like threat of terrorist attack etc. Psychological fears are of various types. Fear of failing, fear of loneliness, fear of heights, fear of darkness, fear of accident, death etc. Probably the reasons for such fear is impressions and experiences gained knowingly or unknowingly in childhood or at later stage. According to Hindu mythology fears can be carried forward from previous births as well.

Though most of the fears are hindrance in progress, particularly fear of failing is dangerous. However certain amount of fear is good to generate performance. I have worked in various countries and with people of various nationality and I have experienced that Indians perform better when they have little fear of their seniors. Best way to deal with fear is to FACE IT. When you face the fear head on, fear vanishes and your confidence increases. Once you slay one fear, you 

will get confidence to conquer all the fears of your life and you can reach the stage of fearlessness. 

5 Tips to deal with fear. 

1. Face it.

2. Most of the people can fight with

the fear by having faith in God.

3. If it is a serious problem, take the 

help of a psychiatrist. 

4. Conquer the smaller fears that will give you courage to deal with bigger fears.

5. Meditation, Yoga and Pranayama may help in overcoming fear.

अक्सर हमको रस्सियाँ, दिखती सर्प समान। 

भय का कारण मैं सदा, कहे मनोविज्ञान।।

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IQ vs EQ

IQ- Intelligence Quotient. EQ- Emotional Quotient. 

Often there is a question whether IQ is superior or EQ is superior. In my opinion both are necessary however I have tried to penned down differences in IQ and EQ. 

IQ is having right knowledge EQ is using the knowledge rightly. 

IQ is taking right decision. EQ is implementing the decision at right time with right people in right circumstances. 

IQ is understanding what is said. EQ is understanding which is not yet uttered. 

IQ can make you good manager. EQ will make you a good leader.

IQ can guide you to right decision EQ will help you in understanding consequences of that decision. 

IQ can show you the right destination. EQ will guide you which path will be the best to reach that destination. 

IQ is a straight line EQ is with rhythm

IQ can give you success. EQ will give you holistic success.

IQ is a function of brain. EQ is function of mind. 

IQ is needed to create relation. EQ is needed to maintain relation. 

IQ may create friends. EQ will eliminate enemies. 

You can impress with IQ. You will embrace with EQ. 

IQ can help you in achieving perfection. EQ will help you is achieving affection. 

IQ is more needed at work. EQ is more needed at home. 

IQ can make you angry. EQ will manage your anger. 

Zero percent IQ and 100% EQ needed to love or to be loved.

IQ is masculine quality, EQ is feminine quality. 

IQ is dry with facts. EQ is wet with emotions. 

IQ is learning. EQ is listening. 

IQ will give you more knowledge. EQ will give you more understanding. 

IQ seek success. EQ seeks happiness. 

IQ will help in understanding differentiation between us. EQ will help in understanding similarities between us. 

IQ will help to know outer world. EQ will help to explore inner world. 

IQ will help in gaining knowledge. EQ will help in spreading knowledge. 

IQ is a logical side of brain. EQ is creative side of brain. 

IQ is tip of iceberg. EQ is entire iceberg. 

Both have no connection. You may have either. You may have both. You may have neither. But certainly EQ is superior than IQ. 

दोहा by अविनाश बागड़े

बुद्धिमान के पर उसे, देते बड़ी उड़ान।

समझदार के हाथ पर, जग की रहे कमान।। 

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Fight Reduces Strength

5 Tips to avoid fight. Fight Reduces Strength. 

1. Stop communication as soon as you feel that fight is going to erupt.

2. Resume communication on next possible occasion.

3. Use mediator in case it is not possible to reconcile on your 

own.

4. Some times, let it cool off. Time is biggest healer.

5. Forget and Forgive.

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Flexibility

Is flexibility important for acceptability? 

Flexibility Creates Acceptability. 

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FAF: Forget And Forgive

If you do not forgive people, they will occupy rent-free space in your mind and heart. I agree that it is easier to say than to implement. Neither it is easy to forgive nor to forget. But if one does not make efforts to forget unnecessary and painful events and forgive our near and dear ones,life is going to be full of worries and stress and it will effect self more than anyone else. It is quite 

possible that other person might have already forgotten and forgiven and is carrying on his/her life with peace and happiness where as we are spoiling our health and mental state by keeping it 

in our mind. 

 

To forget and forgive one needs to look and analyze situation impartially. One has to look at the problem and event from other's point of view. One has to step in the shoes of other party. Every 

person behaves according to his upbringing, circumstances and 

experiences. One needs to understand why the person is behaving the way, which is totally opposite from your expectations. One needs to analyze self behavior also impartially as to whether I have behaved and acted rationally or not? It is quite possible that, we 

have acted out of emotions and without giving proper thoughts.

5 Tips to Forget and Forgive 

   1. Give more importance to relationship. 

   2. Take along-term perspective. 

   3. Develop wisdom to drop your ego. 

   4. Give a benefit of lack of wisdom to other party. 

   5. Communicate to reduce and remove misunderstandings. 

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